Monday, 5 March 2018

Reflecting on apartheid


One of the aspects of life in South Africa that is well known around the world is the years of apartheid and we were keen to find out more about this during our visit.  We knew this would not be an easy thing to do but felt that it was important to learn some of the national history.  I can’t hope to do it all justice in a short blog but will give it my best shot!

We visited the Apartheid Museum which was opened in 2001.  The museum was developed as a way of telling the story of apartheid in all its complexity in a way that informed people about the history but also to bear witness to suffering, heroism and tragedy.  It was also built in the hope it would serve as a warning of what happens when people believe in the superiority of one group of people over another.  The museum took us on a dark and difficult journey that ended in hopefulness for the future. 

At the ticket office we were randomly given tickets classifying us as either ‘white’ or ‘non-white’ and we had to enter through different gates allocated to our race group.  Mark and Rachel had ‘white’ tickets and mine was ‘non-white’ so I had to enter separately.  In a very small way I experienced the uncertainty and vulnerability of being separated from my group and wasn’t sure if that meant I would be spending the day alone as it was not clear where and if we would meet up. 



We saw many of the signs that were used during the apartheid years to keep the races separate in all aspects of life.  Some of these shocking signs are below.
    








   

We learned some of the history of the nation of South Africa which is very long and complex! Here is a bulleted summary!
      Originally African people – Zulu, Xhosa and others
      1487 – Portuguese settled
      1647 – Dutch – settled – became known as Boers
      British Rule – 1795 – 1803
      Dutch Rule – 1803 – 1806
    British Rule again – 1806 – became part of the British Empire and people began to move there and colonize the country
      Diamonds discovered 1867 and gold in 1884 – British determined to keep control of the native people
      1879 – Anglo-Zulu war – Zulus defeated
      Anglo-Boer wars 1880-1881 and 1899-1902
      Union of South Africa formed 1910
    Natives Land Act 1913 – Gave 8% of land to the native Africans and 92% of the land to the white people
      Apartheid introduced in 1948 by the National Party who came to power in this year – they set about creating laws that separated people in terms of race.  We saw plaques listing 148 apartheid laws that affected every aspect of people’s lives.   Hendrick Verwoed who was then minister of native affairs said that ‘the effort to solve the ‘native problem’ lay at the heart of the apartheid project’ and spoke of the need to create ‘permanent solutions’.  He called apartheid a ‘policy of good neighbourliness.’ He also declared that ‘African education should be inferior to that of other races’.  He later went on to become Prime Minister of South Africa in 1953 and was assassinated in 1966. 
      Protests within the country and from outside
      Nelson Mandela imprisoned for anti-apartheid protests for 27 years – released in 1990
      Apartheid ended in 1994 with fully democractic elections – Nelson Mandela voted as President
      A new South African flag was designed as a flag of union between the different groups in the country
      A new constitution was introduced in 1996 founded on equality, justice and freedom for all.

Coming away from the museum left me reflecting on how appalling injustice like this can be allowed to take place but I remembered that this has happened time and again throughout history and even good and well-meaning people have stood by and allowed their fellow human beings to be treated in sub human ways – it still happens today where there is oppression of people around the world.  It made me wonder if there are ways in which I am complicit in the oppression of others through my lifestyle or through keeping silent where I ought to speak out.  I pray that if I am aware of the ill treatment of others I would have the courage to speak out, act in their defense and be prepared to change my way of life accordingly.  Not an easy thing to do.  

The museum ended with a feeling of hopefulness for the future and for the healing of hurts and division and gave me a fresh impetus to pray for this wonderful nation. 

‘South Africa so utterly improbably is a beacon of hope in a dark and troubled world.’ Archbishop Desmond Tutu

The Flame of Democracy

The preamble from the South African Constitution
    
Pray for South Africa (some of this is based on information from Operation World)
      New President Cyril Ramaphosa – that he will deal with corruption in the Government and lead with integrity and wisdom.
      High crime rates fuelled by poverty, desperation, lack of justice and illegal firearms – pray for the police, those working with children and young people at risk, the jobless, prisoners and the hopeless and desperate.
      Continued legacy of apartheid – inequality, poverty, racism. 
      For the church to lead the way in unity and reconciliation.
    The nation is 75% Christian so pray that the believers will unite to seek to address injustice and poverty.
    Pray for healing and unity – especially where some Christians were seen as slow to denounce apartheid and divisions remain.
     Pray for the refugees and migrants living in or travelling through South Africa and those who seek to help them.  


Saturday, 3 March 2018

Preaching in the township and prison visit


Today I'm including a report from Mark

Preaching in the township.
We arrived at Germinston Methodist Church on Sunday 18th February and all I knew was that someone was going to pick me up at 9.30am and take me to a local township to preach. I didn’t know who and I didn’t know where I was going! So it was an exciting step of faith. A brother arrived at the church and I bid fair-well to Carolyn and was off!
We arrived after a short journey by car at the church building, which was a roughly built construction of concrete with a tin roof!
After discussing the order of service with the minister and choir outside (which was our vestry!) we prayed and processed in to wonderful singing.
What a joy it was to share in worship together! Joy! Rhythm! Harmony! God’s wonderful presence! It was mainly ladies and several children. The building filled up and it got hotter!
I preached from Mark 1:9-15 and weaved in some of my testimony. The congregation were most responsive and it was a joy to share God’s word with them ably assisted by the minister who kindly translated for me in to Zulu.
After the word came the most joy bit – the offering! The congregation came up to the front singing and dancing to place their offering on the table at the front and then sang and danced all the way back to their seats! Amazing!
The young people led the congregation at various points during the service. I was also blessed in song by the people as they sang over me and waved! Wow! What an amazing experience.
Near the end of the service there were various ‘votes of thanks’ from difference members of the leadership, which I returned as the privilege was all mine.
I thank God for this experience and am so grateful to have been allowed this honour of sharing God’s word with this flourishing part of the body of Christ in South Africa.


Joyful worship in the township

Visit to Modderbee Prison, Benoni
I was collected from the manse by one of the brothers from Germiston Methodist Church in his mini-bus/ taxi at 0645 and we delivered his Muslim passengers to Benoni Muslim School before going on to the prison. A quite surreal start to the day!
I met Kyia, a lay pastor from one of the local Methodist Churches.
Once checked in we met with other Christian leaders and we were eventually led through to a canteen where we assembled for a session from the Purpose Driven Life series led by an evangelical Catholic lay-pastor!
All the projector equipment and speakers were set up and the inmates arrived in their orange jump-suits.
What a wonderful privilege to be with these spiritually-hungry men!
The worship was wholehearted and passionate.
We watched a session by Rick Warren and then split into small groups gathered around the tables in the canteen.
I sat with the leader and about 10 men.
We looked at various Bible verses together on the theme of discipleship. There was a real sense of love and unity and a desire to change to be more like Jesus as we shared together. The Holy Spirit joined our hearts together. We prayed together and then rejoined after about 40 minutes with the other groups for the closing worship.
I was asked to share a greeting with the men, to encourage them to attend the forthcoming Alpha course and to pray God’s blessing over them! What another honour!
One inmate came up to me from our small group and said how his heart was full of joy at the fellowship we’d all shared together and I completely understood what he was saying as mine was bursting too!
Thank you Lord for this amazing experience and the joy of sharing fellowship with these precious brothers.

Wednesday, 28 February 2018

Women in Leadership


The main reason we were visiting South Africa was to find out about Magnify, the women in leadership programme, written and delivered by Rev Jane Day.  The name for the programme takes inspiration from the song of Mary in Luke Chapter 1 when she says, ‘My soul magnifies the Lord and my spirit rejoices in God my Saviour, for he has been mindful of the humble state of his servant…the mighty one has done great things for me…holy is his name.’

The programme aims to equip, encourage and empower women to serve God wherever they are in God’s mission and takes place on six Saturdays throughout the year.  The six sessions, all beginning with ‘C’ are as follows:
  • ·         Context – Women in leadership
  • ·         Character – The inward journey
  • ·         Competence – What gifts do we bring?
  • ·         Connect – Who is around you?
  • ·         Communion – Exploring spirituality
  • ·         Courage – What are you aiming for?
  • ·         Celebration – Telling stories of changed lives

Rachel and I attended a ‘Magnify’ day exploring spirituality, which was held at a wonderful retreat centre called Enseni - a former family home that was bequeathed to the church and is set in beautiful gardens. 
      


The theme of the day was ‘love’ and we were offered three different options to help us engage with the theme.  One was creative – to decorate a compassion box and fill it with things that give us pleasure or enjoyment and reflect on how we take care of ourselves. The second was an awareness walk – we were invited to walk in the garden and really take time to notice the beauty of the nature around us and listen for God’s voice.  This was helped by the fact that it was summer in South Africa and it was a beautiful, hot, still, sunny day! The third invitation was to go to a quiet prayer room and focus on different aspects of God’s heart, resting in his love for us. 




      
After a couple of hours we gathered together again and shared communion and were invited to share any thoughts from the morning.  We then ended the time together with lunch before everyone went their separate ways.



   

Jane very kindly allowed Rachel and myself to look at all her Magnify resources and we were both impressed by the professionalism, careful thought and attention to detail that Jane has put into the planning of the days and by some of the amazing stories of women who have done the course and have been enabled to realise their worth to God and how he has gifted them and gone on to do some amazing things in a leadership role.  Another thing that was inspiring for us was that in a nation where there is still a lot of segregation and division, even sometimes in the churches, that the Magnify programme is pulling together women of all backgrounds, races and nationalities in a common bond of sisterhood that must surely put a smile on God’s face.
     
Nicky, Jane and Deirdre - the team from Creative Communication




Monday, 26 February 2018

South Africa - introduction


Our visit to South Africa came about because as the British Officer for the World Federation of Methodist and Uniting Church Women, I was offered a trip on behalf of the British Methodist Church at some point in my five year appointment. 
I had begun to correspond with one of our Mission Partners, Rev Jane Day, and was interested particularly in the leadership programme for women she had instigated and the executive agreed this could be a useful connection and learning experience.  The Methodist Women in Britain policy is for two people to travel together and so it was felt that this trip could be of benefit to Rachel Allison, our Helen Kim Memorial Scholar and she agreed to accompany me.  Jane’s husband Steve, is also a minister so Mark came too and we planned that while Rachel and I accompanied Jane and worked with her, Mark would work alongside Steve in his ministry. 
Jane and Steve live in a place called Germiston which is close to Johannesburg.  They very graciously allowed us to stay with them in their home and it was great to spend time with them and find out about their life in South Africa as well as some of the issues facing them and the nation. 

Revs Jane and Steve Day

Jane, Rachel and myself


    
Bus tour
The first day that we were there, Jane and Steve organised for us to take an open top bus tour of Johannesburg which was a great way to gain an overview of the city.  We could have hopped on and off all day but we only stopped at two places – Constitution Hill (which I will write about in another blog) and the Transnet Building to get a view of Jo’Burg from above.  Jo’Burg has several names but the one we kept hearing was ‘City of Gold’ because it developed around a gold rush in 1886. 
     
 
The Jo'Burg red bus

 

Nelson Mandela bridge

Ghandi Square
Jo'Burg sreet scene


Transnet Building - tallest building in Jo'Burg

Views from the top


        
          
  
Theatre
A highlight of our week was when Jane and Steve took us to the Joburg Theatre to see a performance of ‘The Colour Purple’.  It was great to experience not only the amazing voices and acting talents of the cast but also the wonderful way in which the audience interacted with the show – something we have never experienced before.  People were clapping, cheering, gasping, shouting ‘Amen’ and generally engaging with the plot and the characters!  It is an experience I will never forget. 



    
This is just an introduction to our trip but I will write further blogs, some on a more serious note on the Magnify – Women in Leadership course, on what I have learned about Apartheid and about Methodism in South Africa with more photos to share! 



Saturday, 10 February 2018

Life without supermarkets

Gracious I am not sure where that year went without updating my blog! 

I am writing today just as we approach Lent, because my daughter has challenged me to join her in giving up supermarkets for Lent.   

My new year's resolution was to 'eat less and eat better' and I have been searching our local shops, farm shops etc for meat and veg in an attempt to eat more ethically and cut down on the use of plastic, food miles as well as eat food that supports our local economy and good animal welfare. Attempting to give up supermarkets for Lent really takes that a step further as I will see if it is possible to get everything we need locally.

This challenge has made me feel a bit nervous and made me realise just how much we rely on our weekly supermarket shop.  My research so far has shown that buying more local and organic produce costs more and involves a lot more effort to seek out what we need.  I love the food writer, Joanna Blythman, who suggests that we CAN eat ethically and organically on a budget so long as we shop wisely, buy cheaper cuts of meat, eat less meat and cook everything from scratch.

I already do cook most food from scratch but the challenge now is to spend this time eating more simply, eating a bit less but more ethically.  I am not sure how I am going to fit all this in to my busy life but as Emily has laid down the challenge I will have a go and let you know how I get on!  If anyone has any handy hints and suggestions do get in touch! 

All We Can, the charity for which I am one of trustees, has produced some excellent Lent resources, called 'Keep it Simple' which aims to help us explore the pleasure of living simply while joining in solidarity with our global neighbours.  I would really encourage you to have a look and use them in your personal daily devotions or in your Lent groups or to give to the amazing work they are doing around the world with people who often struggle to provide for the daily needs of themselves and their families.  www.allwecan.org.uk/simple  



Saturday, 25 February 2017

Seeking refuge in storm Doris

The scene at Euston on Thursday

Last week during storm Doris, our daughter Jo became stranded in London as all trains to her home in Manchester had been cancelled. Due to the large number of people stranded, hotel beds were difficult to find, the tube stations were closed because of overcrowding and there were long queues for taxis.  She texted us for help and as we prayed I was able to put a message out on Facebook and begin compiling a list of people we knew in the London area.  Within the hour, I had had several offers of lifts and beds for the night for her and the kindness of friends moved me to tears.  As it turned out she was able to find a hotel bed and finally got a taxi there but it was a worrying hour or so for me as a mum thinking of my pregnant daughter wandering London on her own.


This incident made me reflect again on how dreadful is the plight of so many refugees fleeing their homelands looking for safety.  Among them will be young mothers to be like Jo who will not have the benefit of parents with lots of friends who would willingly take them in. Jo knew she would be able to get back home the next day but it is just beyond imagination to think of people leaving behind all their worldly possessions, other than that which they can carry, and travelling to unknown destinations where there is no certainty of a welcome and conversely, the possibility of danger and hostility as they travel.  Even though these people are anonymous to us, it made me remember that they are all known and loved by their own families and each one is precious to God.

If anyone wishes to give a donation to the refugee crisis appeal you can do so through many charities including the Methodist charity, All We Can. Www.allwecan.org.uk

Saturday, 7 January 2017

New Year musings

The new year is traditionally a time for looking back and reflecting on the year that has passed and also looking forward to what may lay ahead in the new year.

As Mark and I reflect on 2016 we are so thankful that it was a year full of adventure and marked by a lot of travelling, especially with Mark having had his sabbatical and with me having a suitcase constantly packed and ready to journey around the country by train.  It has also been a year of exciting changes as I have officially started my new role with Methodist Women in Britain and Mark has been given responsibility of an extra church at Ivybridge.  We have met and started to get to know many new people and look forward to building more relationships locally and around the country in the year ahead.  In addition, both of our daughters and their husbands moved house and we learned that we are to become grandparents for the first time this coming year. :-) Sometimes I find it hard living far away from our children and not seeing them very often, but we were blessed with a couple of lovely days all together over New Year in Manchester and for that I am very thankful.
A full house at Ivybridge on Christmas morning

Christmas dinner a deux!

Visiting my parents

Happy to be with my chicks!



Looking forward into 2017 we have lots of things already in the diary about which we are full of hope and excitement and there are other situations in which we are having to put our hand into God's and entrust them to him and his plans for us and our loved ones.   As I said in the last blog entry, we look forward to the coming year not knowing what it holds or what will happen either good or bad but as the old hymn goes, 'I know not what the future holds, but I know who holds the future.'

Sometimes we scrabble around making plans but actually all we have as a certainty is this moment, today and it is good to take time to slow down and enjoy each moment as it arises, appreciate the people we love and remember to count our blessings.



This weekend we will take part in the traditional Methodist New Year Covenant Service and the words are so powerful and if said with sincerity are quite a challenge but I pray that whatever this year brings, you will be given the grace to put your trust in God day by day and be given peace and strength to deal with all that lies in store.  As Wesley said, 'Best of all is, God is with us.'

Methodist Covenant Prayer
I am no longer my own, but yours.
Put me to what you will, rank me with whom you will;
put me to doing, put me to suffering;
let me be employed for you, or laid aside for you,
exalted for you, or brought low for you;
let me be full,
let me be empty,
let me have all things,
let me have nothing:
I freely and wholeheartedly yield all things
to your pleasure and disposal.
And now, glorious and blessed God,
Father, Son and Holy Spirit,
you are mine and I am yours. So be it.
And the covenant now made on earth, let it be ratified in heaven.
Amen.